barret i am so thankful you have the confidence of discussing such content. the word douchebag creates a very visual image, which references an obsession with female genitalia, and the sense that they are unclean. i know by douchebag you mean lame dude. but you might hone in on some natural eloquence or content. there is no need to be so nasty. it detracts from your ideas. and i know you are not intentionally being sexist. it just sounds less than educated.